daniellemertina:

baddominicana:

yeah the advice from fellow latinas about

“you need to be quiet and let men be men. you think too much. you always have opinions. you want to question them. you have to pretend you dont know. its just how it is w men. let them think they have the right of way. its your place.”

ummmm

no.

and then they try to say i cant be dominant. and heres the thing: i have no desire to be dominant, the thought of that actually bothers me. i am pretty strong-willed and i prefer people who are as well, actually. what i want is to be an equal human being, but as a woman, when you have the nerve to want to be human too it means you are “being dominant, challenging his manhood and asking for whatever you get”.

in other words, if you dont shrink yourself down and your ass gets beat or some shit, oh fuckin well.

male-identified women push patriarchy even harder than men sometimes. :/

i’ve heard all of this too many times (from women). except, most don’t agree with getting ass whooped but they think that if you do get your ass whooped (by a “good black man”… meaning one who is educated without kids or a criminal record) that it is because you were too uppitty with the nigga

yeah i have a female friend who thinks like this

(Source: bad-dominicana)